My kids and I went to camp this summer for the first time. I’m in no particular hurry to get my kids to overnight camp (my oldest is 7), but when we were invited by my oldest son’s classmate and his mother, I was tempted.
At 5 days and 4 nights, with an adult-child ratio of about 1:3, our camp is designed for 6 to 9 year olds to have a gentle entry to overnight camp. And it does this for some of their parents too, because it turns out that we can volunteer as counsellors. By doing just this, I also got to bring along my second son, who just turned 5.
I didn’t go to camp as a girl, and was excited (and a little nervous) by the idea that I would be experiencing and learning about it alongside my boys. Without further ado, here are the top 10 Things I Discovered at Overnight Camp:
1. The dining hall is not for dining.
I have to be honest: I never adjusted to the dining hall experience. The food was unspeakable, truly. But beyond the reconstituted food powders was the noise. Oh my lordie, the noise. I could possibly bear the incessant singing if it weren’t followed with rounds of screaming. Screaming, my friends, at the top of one’s lungs. We were the youngest unit, sitting next to the 13-15 year olds. I’ll pause a moment for you to imagine. Our little people basically dropped their forks whenever the hollering sounded, which was a lot. It was all but impossible to eat.
2. Bring Metamusil.
Related to the point 1, but deserving its own line.
3. Being a counsellor is serious work.
I thought that being an inexperienced volunteer counsellor would mean a couple of hours in the craft room, maybe a morning in the kitchen. Um, no. A counsellor is with her unit 24/7 for five days. I was… surprised.
4. Fake it ’til you make it.
The camp we attended struck me as an extroverted dream. You are surrounded by lots of people who want to get to know you, have instantaneous friends, and are never alone. You sing and yell and be merry. This version of heaven is not mine. One of my favourite times at camp was stealing away from the group because my 5 year old needed a nap, and I got to read for an hour in a quiet tent while he slept. But the rest of the time, even when I would have preferred to be alone, I pretended that I didn’t. I sang and danced and air pumped with the best of them, and I had a good time.
5. Girls are lovely.
Camp rules mean that female counsellors sleep in the girls’ tents and male counsellors sleep in the boys’ tents. My tent housed four 7 to 9 year old girls. I have three sons, and don’t spend much time with girls, and discovered from my little tent-mates that they are lovely. They’re pretty and quiet(er) and bounce around less. They talk easily and their colourful bathing suits have two pieces. One of them asked me to braid her hair and told her about her family life while I did it. I miss them a little.
6. Being at camp is hard.
Each of the four girls in my tent ran amok and laughed and cheered during the day; each was homesick at night. Two slept with their flashlights on through the night; two wept; one tried not to and had an earache at midnight instead.
7. Leaving camp is hard.
My 7 year old wouldn’t join the receiving line for saying goodbye at camp. When we got home, his Lego structure broke and hit his toe, the full weight of leaving camp fell and he said that “all the fun is gone, there’s no fun left.” I held him through that and the next morning until we re-adjusted to being home. Kids feel post-party just like adults do.
8. Sleep is for wimps.
There are a number of factors working against sleep at camp.
a). The children, both those in your own tent and those in the neighbouring tents. They will talk, get homesick, want (not need) to pee (in the toilets, which are like a mile away), and cough.
b) The sounds of the night. Anyone who waxes on about quiet country nights is forgetting the bullfrogs, the loons (so, so beautiful), and the animals (coyote?) who stalk and eat at night.
c) Your own self. On the one night that the girls in my tent actually slept, I had a nightmare that they needed something and sprung up in bed asking, “Are you okay? What do you need?” My co-counsellor could have done without this.
9. A good frog is worth 100 iPads.
Forever and ever, amen.
10. It’s good to be kind to kids.
The children’s well-being and happiness was the number one priority at camp, which was essentially a 5 day immersion on kindness to kids. Most of us could benefit from this once in awhile and be reminded not to let the frustrations of the day reign – I know I could. I think I brought home from camp a little more patience and a little more cheer, and for this alone it was more than worth it.
Amen on #9 🙂
The frogging areas (with snakes, turtles, fish) were magnetic for the kids – wonderful.
I personally prefer toads! Great post, I haven’t allowed my kids to do overnight camp yet, the oldest will be 11 soon.
We had some big good toads too!
Kids quickly get attached to go to camps… I myself miss going every summer :). Now I do mission trips.
Before we left, my kids were already advocating our return…
Yeah my sister never wants to come home from hers either. I just got home from a three week trip to Australia, New Zealand, and Fiji. At the airport meeting out parents when we got home I think I cried more knowing it was over than I did being happy to see me parents again haha.
Sounds like a bit of work, fun work. I’ll take my son to one when he’s old enough.
It was quite a bit of work, but fun as you say. I also met some really nice (adult) people who I’d look forward to seeing again next summer.
Bravo, you! I have a coffee mug that I treasure that says, “I’m so glad I’m not camping.” Your post, while it makes me revere you even more than I already do, makes me love my mug more, too.
omg, I want one.
So sweet. My boys just got home from sleep-away camp – they are older. They love it – I love it. And love your blog! We are a ways from preschool but I remember well. This is my (sort of humorous) take: http://shesayspost.wordpress.com/2013/08/09/preschool-no-sugar-no-guns-seriously/
My son cried his first night home from camp… he just wanted to go back so badly!