4mothers1blog began as the collective work of four Toronto women who met in a Momoir Project writing class in the fall of 2009. 4 mothers became 3, and we now invite a guest writer to make up our fourth as we weigh in on parenting issues big and small. Inspired by each others’ voices and perspectives, the women of 4mothers1blog explore the ins-and-outs of raising boys (
nine between the three of them), motherhood, and the joys (and frustrations) of family life in the city. They can be reached at email@example.com.
Carol Chandran was born in Malaysia and raised in Toronto. She is married and the mother of three boys, 9 and under. She is currently taking a leave of absence from her paid work as a lawyer to tend to her brood. Drawn in the extreme to natural living and the power of slow, Carol manages to incorporate them into her life in the not-so-extreme.
Nathalie Foy is the mother of three boys, 13, 9 and 6, an avid reader and a former instructor of Canadian Literature at the University of Toronto. She and her husband and sons live in downtown Toronto. Nathalie’s favourite thing about living in Toronto is being able to hear 10 different languages on any trip through the city. Prior to moving to Toronto in 1997, Nathalie lived in Liberia, Nigeria, Haiti, Saudi Arabia, England, Egypt, Ireland and Japan, with a four-year stop in Montreal for university. Hearing languages she does not always understand makes her feel at home. Nathalie also blogs about books at http://nathaliefoy.wordpress.com
Beth-Anne Jones is a mom to three sons (ages 7, 6 and 4). Her favourite things are spending time with her boys, including her husband, reading a good book in a hot bath, beautiful stationery, silent car rides and fresh flowers. She is always striving to “have it all”, lead a simpler life, and find her inner zen . . . but manages to come up just short. Imagine that.
Our photos were taken by Sara Beasley and by Leigh Tynan at Modern Baby. Thanks for making us look good, ladies!
Congratulations ladies and good luck with your blog.
I’m sure you’ll have a ton of fun writing it and we shall all enjoy reading it. (Jeeez, that’s a LOT of little boys – God bless you !!!)
I love reading your blog. It brings back a lot of memories. . Take heart ladies my boys are 23 yrs and 25yrs. They do grow up fast and just fine. By the way mine were both bottle fed and they grew up happy and healthy. Enjoy your boys !!!!
Wow, I am ever glad I found you four!!
Beautiful and fantastico….I have 3 boys…..see http://jkothephotoguy.wordpress.com
I will be following your posts!
I’m the mom of boys, too: fraternal twins (14) and a singleton (12). Boys are wonderful but I wish they’d occasionally want to go clothes shopping with me. Sigh.
I have 2 older boys — 20 and 17, and an adopted 9-year-old daughter from Korea. I always joked that I needed a girl so I could have someone in my house who could tell me if my shoes went with my outfit. The funny thing is that one day I was wearing red sneakers with khaki-green pants (she was 4 I think) and she was very concerned: her question, and I quote, was “You’re not going wear those are you?” When I said “Yes, I think I am.” She pursed her lips, shook her head, and said “I really don’t think you should.” A perfect demonstration of the adage “Be careful what you wish for.” 🙂
heheh, that’s precious ❤ 🙂
So nice to meet you all. This sounds like a great new adventure. I am looking forward to reading many wonderful posts. Linda
Glad that we have found each other, Linda!
I really like the premise of this blog. Keep it up ladies!
I like to reading your blog. Congratulation to writing a good
topic. Thanks again………………………….monirul
Having raised four myself (one of whom is the Peter in Marcelle’s blog) – and survived! – I enjoyed reading your blogs. Eking out a few minutes of alone time while raising children is such a feat – it seemed decades inched by before closing the bathroom was again a viable option…
One of the many gems gleaned from post-grad studies when the kids were all grown and launched was Bowlby’s concept of the “good enough mother.” A deep heaving sigh of relief rushed through me on learning I didn’t have to be perfect after all – good enough was…good enough.
Sounds like you are all doing good enough and more!
What a lovely message. Thank you!
Two sons. 14 and 9.
Living in Germany.
I stumbled upon your blog while googling Art Junktion this morning [the Winnipeg one] and I’ve spent the better part of the day reading here. Howling with laughter, tearing up at times, what a wonderful way to spend a Sunday.
That is a LOT of little boys. As a mother on one, girl, now 20+ and fully fledged from the farm, your blog is a window to a world far, far removed from my own. But with enough touch stones of similarity to remind me of some of the sweet joys that are now gone from my daily routine. [thank gawd!]
My hat tip to you all.
Thanks so much! (And sorry for the belated reply.) Glad we were able to brighten your morning.
Been reading your blog. Found it from the 2012 weblog awards. Hope you can stop by my page, although its not a “fun read”. I strive to have some happiness in my life. Right now its hard to come by.
Thanks for reaching out, Angie.
Thank you for your blog – you have made me laugh – I hope I can return the favour – mum of 4 in uk blogging about the funny stuff – think you would like Just in Time if you can make it over!
Beautiful blog ladies! I look forward to reading and rolling your posts 🙂
Beautiful photos! Are these new or had I just never noticed them before? Either way – they are lovely. Nice to get to “know” all of you through your fantastic blog!
New. We were all well out of our comfort zone getting these photos done, but we had fun. I’m glad it shows!
Love the new photos! You all look beautiful.
Thanks, Carrie. I remember following your 365 project with interest. Will you do it again?
Did the mommy you thought they could have it all work out you can’t, without being exhausted. Love the fact that four women have got together to produce this. Felicity Fox
Goodness gracious, what a lovely blog ladies!
Thanks so much.
4boys1mommy says glad I found ya!
Ha! That’s hilarious! Four boys! We’re glad you found us, too. Welcome.
Wow! this is so great to know 4 mothers writing as one with different things to offer! ♥
That’s our favourite aspect of the work we do: how differently we all come to it. Glad you have enjoyed reading our posts.
I’m happy to find your blog, thanks to a link sent by DefiningMotherhood. I’m also from Ontario, and mother to two boys, so I think there will be lots for me to read about and relate to! Looking forward to it.
Thanks! I love Defining Motherhood, too. What a great structure for writing a parenting blog!
I found myself nodding and laughing hysterically by turns as I read the ‘iPad’ post and one of the earliest ones on ‘Another Meal’. I know I’ll be whiling away precious moments I should be spending making dinner, or doing laundry, checking out the latest on your blog. Thanks for sharing the madness!
The great thing about madness is that there’s always more to share!
Heyyy!! it is not easy to put 2 heads together..I know it would not….but yes here you are..the four beautiful faces, the four wonderful mothers..with great ideas and superb friendships..having one blog together.. Wow !! SALUTE to the four of you!!!
Best wishes and blessings to you pretty mothers!
~ a bunch of love
I admire you all. I have two boys (16 and 8) with two girls (14 and 11) in between. Even though my boys are eight years apart, sometimes the level of testosterone and rowdiness gets crazy. Still, I wish I had at least a couple of more boys (and girls) in the mix. I love all my children, but there is something magical about raising a little boy and watching him become a (almost) man. I look forward to reading more from boy moms!
I just bought a new lip gloss to compensate for the many hours spent at the rink. Hormone math? We still have not quite hit the testosterone years….
Is there a contact email to reach you at?
Hi, Jill. We’re at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Beautiful….women, we’re pretty awesome!
You said it!
Really love your bolg. It is a collection of parenting art. Thanks for your brilliant work.
Oh, I love that. “Parenting art.” Thank you.
hey .. I nominated you and your blog 🙂 check it out http://myfamilybliss.com/2013/02/13/yay-i-have-been-nominated/
It is a fabulous blog.I love reading your Blog.There are four wonderful Mothers.
Good news, I’m giving you the “BEST MOMENT AWARD“.
Check back here: http://myfamilybliss.com/2013/03/13/whats-up-wednesday-weve-been-awarded-again/
Congratulations and enjoy the rest of the day!
That is good news! I’m glad we inspired a best moment.
Love your opinions! Glad I found your blog
I’m still fairly new to your blog but I’m loving the different perspectives! Here’s a little something to say thank-you!
Thanks! We are in some great company there!
Hello, I have passed the “Bouquet of Three Award” to you. Congratulations! Find out more here: http://mysocalledglamorouslife.wordpress.com/2013/05/22/bouquet-of-three-award/
Thanks so much!
Wow, you guys sounds so cool!! This blog is awesome
first time stopping by your blog. I will also pass this along to my wife. I think she would enjoy your thoughts!!!
Can’t tell you how much I’m loving your blog… The fact that you guys are showing that we are human beings that do “silly” things but nonetheless love your children as much as that mom who is scared to show that she isn’t perfect. Plus, I do get my giggle. 🙂
Oh, we do lots of silly things! I’m glad you’ve enjoyed reading our posts.
Interesting! I look forward to reading more of your posts.
Oh look how beautiful you four are ! Really cute together ! I just read one of your posts and It was amazing…….. I am loving the way you write things…..Just going to explore your world more 🙂 Love you ! xx
Hope you enjoyed exploring!
What a neat blog. Love your idea and your friendship. Also love getting advice on raising kids. Can’t wait to read your stuff.
Your blog is is lovely. I just started to blog on WordPress and trying to find my way around, and I found your blog, and I like.
Have a great day!.
Sorry for the belated reply, and welcome to the blogosphere!
Thank you so much!
Lovely to hear, Many blessings and best wishes to you Ladies!
I just saw your lovely comments about my Canadian Flyer Adventures and I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate the comments and am delighted the boys like the books. If your boys are non-fiction lovers like my son was, they might enjoy my newest book (with author Elizabeth MacLeod), A HISTORY OF JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING, (Kids Can Press). With many thanks, Frieda Wishinsky
I’m so glad you let us know about this book, Frieda. We’ll check it out!
Such a multicultural ensemble; loving it!
Hi, threesome/foursome, from across the pond in England. A lovely idea to club together like this. But let me ask you something : have you ever found women who’ve owned up to WANTING boys, despite not having them?! I’m one of these. I’d love to see this more discussed online. Do check out my blog on this and other related subjects at http://boywoman.wordpress.com – would love your thoughts.
Thanks, Paula. We will file this as an idea for a blog post! Happy writing.
Loved the zeal. Canada does it self proud. Sorry I am American and can not receive the package. It does look interesting.
hi, you have a wonderful blog!!! congratulations!
Nice blog. I’ve been browsing lots of “moms of boys” blogs – it’s unusual, and heartening – to see a collaborative effort. I’ve just started blogging about my family life with 4 boys http://boybandinthemaking.wordpress.com – my humorous take on a houseful of boys. Please check me out – I’d love to guest post for you sometime. You might like my latest “Family Rules” post: http://boybandinthemaking.wordpress.com/2014/02/26/family-rules-or-so-they-say/
Thanks for dropping in, and welcome to the mother of boys blog community!
Wow, this blog looks ace! I have two girls but my eldest (3) is so boisterous that I think that she may be worth two boys 😉 Ha Ha
Congratulations on your Blog! I’ve been blessed to have three boys myself. Drop me a note and let me know how you’re doing. I’m sure we have about a thousand stories between 6 boys!
I subscribe to savvymom and I was so happy to read your article about the Granny Panties….it’s about time someone wrote about keeping moms sexy. Our sex lives certainly didn’t die after the kids.
This blog is great!!! I’m a mom to 3 boys too, ages 5, 3, and 4 months. I’ve recently started blogging about life with three boys, trying to keep up with my fitness, and my faith through the fatigue!
Just two boys here, super happy to have found you! I say “just” lightly, as they’re 23mo apart and a definite handful!
Hi! I stumbled across your blog page for one reason…you all have boys! Did you know thepinkstore.com was started because we have three now grown young men? The concept of this little company was due to the fact that although I love our boys, I equally love being a feminine mom. So I found a way to incorporate a little touch of pink into the lives of moms, little girls, grandmas, cousins, aunts, sister, friends and the list goes on. We even have pink ties for the guys, big and little! Please check out our site and let us know if there’s a way you’d like to work together! Happy Friday!
Glad that I found you guys! I’m expecting the third one, next year.. nice to meet you
Welcome to the blog, and good luck with #3!
Love this blog! I look forward to following!
Love your blog! Wish it was around when I was raising my boys. I have three sons as well who are now 38, 35, 34. I am now the proud grandmother of two girls. I am new to blogging, so please check out my blog when you can! 🙂
I have just started to follow you ladies! Very glad to see your experiments and words of wisdom. I have two girls 4 and 8 year olds so it’s always nice to share ideas and connections.
Your blog looks like a great place and I will for sure check out more. Glad to virtually meet you 🙂
I love this blog therefore I nominated you for the creative blogger award on my website. 😊
I am so glad I found your blog! I’m going to have so much fun sifting through it.
Congratulations and good luck! Really nice blog! I am the mom of nine kids and lived in Saudi Arabia for 16 years. I am looking forward to viewing your blog and reading more!
What a great idea for a blog. Look forward to reading your posts.
Encouraging blog. Thank you. Moms need all the help we can get, and I believe, sometimes, with boys, that help has to come a little quicker and sweeter before the mud sets in. lol! 😉 Looking forward to reading more.
Congrats on this great blog. I wanted to leave a comment on your post about dress codes but it is closed. You have won over a new follower.
Thank you for following us-comments like yours make our day. I’m sorry the comments were closed, that is a glitch that we will sort out.
Love it! Our blog is somewhat similar– several moms, doing some good for others! Can’t wait to see what you guys post!