OK, the kids are all quite good at making their own lists, but just in case, here are some ideas for kids, big and small.
A friend recently shared her family’s gift-giving tradition with me. Each child gets an ornament to add to the tree every year, Santa leaves one unwrapped gift for each under the tree, and each of the kids gets four gifts from Mum and Dad: “One to read, one to wear, one to play with and one to share.” It’s a delightful formula that I will borrow for here.
One to read
Check our lists of favourite reads for the year if you are looking for book ideas.
If you are editing your book shelves in anticipation of adding more, please consider giving your gently used books to The Children’s Book Bank. Every child who visits the Book Bank goes home with a free book. It is one of the most magical spaces in the city, and I do so admire their mission to help children build their own libraries. Take your kids for a visit, drop off your donations and go home with one new-to-you book for your child.
One to wear
Everyone gets pajamas. I love everything made by Hatley, a company named for the town in Quebec where the founders lived. These pajamas have staying power: they will last through several kids and live to be handed down again and again. Also available at Indigo. ($30)
I like to get snarky t-shirts for Eldest, who is 13. He loves them and wears them on heavy rotation all year. This one is from Café Press. $31.50
Eldest has also begun to wear cologne, saints preserve us. I’ve put something that I actually like the smell of into his stocking: 5 Paddles Brewing Company Beer Soap in Lemongrass made by Aide Bodycare from all natural ingredients. The beer comes from a brewery in Whitby, where my dad now lives. That’s the kind of connection I love to find for these little stocking stuffer ideas.
One to play with
I’m sorry. Here’s where I get boring. All the Littles want is Lego. Lego, Lego, Lego.
One to share
I like the gift of experience as a gift to share. Carol recently wrote about her night out with her three boys at Ross Petty’s Cinderella, and the three of us are taking our boys to see Potted Potter next week. Two actors, seven Harry Potter books, and one game of Quidditch in 70 minutes. So excited!
And for a gift to share at home, board game night is always a hit with the boys. This one is a favourite with them and me: Cathedral. Position your buildings to best advantage inside the walled medieval city and prevent your opponent from doing the same. I love handling the carved wooden buildings; the kids love beating me almost every single time. (Did I mention I’m not so good at spatial reasoning?) $30. Available through National Geographic.
And if you like your sharing to be sweet, check out the hand-made marshmallows from Wondermade. $7.95 a box. Delish!
Bring the 90s back with flower print dresses and Doc Martens, like these from Mini Mioche for $80.00 one of my favourite local, eco-friendly kids’ stores. (Available in a variety of colours)
Toting starts early – and anyone with a toddler can tell you that the hoarding starts at this stage. Why not keep everything together with this bookhou print messenger bag? Mini Mioche, $34
Every Christmas list needs a whimsical splurge item and for me, it’s Alfred the Moose Felt Factory Animal Head. Really, isn’t it just so cute? Mini Mioche, $100.
Make that two whimsical splurge items . . . I have no little girls to buy for this year but maybe next year I will purchase this Star Bright Pettidress. Indigo, $35.20.
Constructing and playing in forts and tents has always been a favourite pastime of my boys. This Camo Frame indoor tent is ideal for hiding out, reading a book or escaping for some alone time. Indigo, $65.95.
Lego is a big hit around here but it’s Roominate that has caught my attention this year. Roominate is designed by Alice Brooks and Bettina Chen, two engineers with degrees from MIT, Caltech and Stanford on a mission to show kids, particularly young girls, how engineering is both creative and fun! Indigo, $22.95-$54.95.
When my boys are not busy building forts or Lego, chances are they are outside. If we end up with as much snow as last year, the Snowball Blaster will get lots of use. Indigo, $39.95.
Boardgames are quickly becoming a favourite with my middle son. He loves strategizing . . . and winning. Christmas Story Monopoly, Indigo, $44.95.
I can’t believe how quickly the years are going by and I need to keep up with these hand imprints as long as their hands still fit on these ornaments! Indigo, $11.60.
Earphones – I don’t know why but we always seem to need these. Indigo, $35.00.
Most of my friends are finished having babies, but I’m so glad I’ve got a hold out friends who is due in a few months so I have someone to target for these handmade plush organic cotton animals by Fidoodle. The ring of the rattle inside is soft and sweet, and baby can chew away at this safe toy with abandon. The moose is my favourite; there’s also a bunny and a bird. Available online or at Little House in the City.
Perfect for older children are Bubynoa‘s handmade toys and dolls created from vintage fabrics – double-stitched because they’re made for use and play, although we’ve known some adults who buy them just to admire. Little House in the City carries a range of her animal toys.
For a truly special gift, treat your eyes and your little someone to one of Bubynoa‘s exquisite handmade people dolls. They take days to make with details lovingly attended to. And bestill my heart, these dolls reflect some of Toronto’s brilliant diversity, and the boys are just as wonderful as the girls. Available at Bubynoa’s Etsy shop.
Also gorgeous for the littles in our lives are Hey Pomelo‘s handmade organic baby bibs, hooded towels, receiving blankets, quilts and accessories. Made to last with fabrics that just get softer with washing, these pieces are truly functional beauty. Available online and at Little House in the City.
Happy merry-making and gift-giving for the little people in your life! 4Mothers hopes the season is wonderful for you and for them.